“Let go of things that don’t matter and people that don’t count; Memories that aren’t worth remembering and grudges that aren’t worth holding.  You have one life to live.  Live with no regrets.”


When it seems like your world is crashing down, it’s best to believe that everything does happen for a reason, and you wouldn’t have been dealt anything that you couldn’t handle.  It’s time to stop asking yourself “why me?” and start planning the “what now?” If this is a man’s world, grab it by the balls and take it for a ride.  Never underestimate how much power and influence a woman really has.  TRUST.

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That’s what she said.

“If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy.  If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing.  If she’s worth it, you won’t give up.  If you give up, you aren’t worth it.”

Ladies, learn this.  Men, man up.

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so they say

“The power of a relationship lies with whoever cares less.”

Unfortunately for women, this is very true.  As much as I hate to say this, life is very much a game.  Play to win, or don’t play at all.  I think men tend to become very complacent in long term relationships and they always stop trying when they know they have you.  Don’t you ever notice that men always care more, or try harder in the beginning of a relationship? Or do you ever wonder how all those uber bitchy women have guys drooling all over them? That’s because there is something appealing about women who just don’t give a damn.

They say “you’ll never appreciate what you have until it’s gone.”  Well, how can they ever appreciate you if your ass is always around?


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Are you part of the 43%?

i was listening to 97.1 amp radio this morning like i do every morning before work and today’s topic was “how do you get over a break up?” is it a) get a rebound b) listen to sad songs and mope or c) drown yourself in alcohol.  says carson daly, “43% of women fall into the getting a rebound category.”  perez hilton shares that the best way to get over a break up is to get into another relationship before your ex does.  “whoever gets into another relationship first, wins.”  funny, but totally true.

so i got to thinking.  can i ever get over a bad break up if i don’t have a rebound? for the longest time, i think i always had some sort of a back up person.  someone that i knew would always be there just in case i needed a pick me up.  but with my last relationship, i was so silly in love that i believed he would be “the one.”  now that everything has ended, i’m having a hard time figuring which category i fall under.  i think i need a combination of a, b and c to get over this.  my plan is to drown myself in alcohol while listening to sad love songs and having my rebound pick me up after for late night munchies.  this might not be the best way to deal with a break up, but it sure sounds like a good time.

i think most women fall into the 43%.  i’m considering placing myself there too.

which are you?

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a blog about sex and the city in orange county.
we run into the same problems, face the same obstacles and feel the same pain.  the difference is that i can’t script my life, rewrite my happy ending and request for a wardrobe change.  the only thing i can do is learn from my mistakes, pick up the pieces and continue moving forward.

fashion risks and matters of the heart.  this could totally be a blog about things i pick up along the way.

all is fair in love and fashion.

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